If you are unsure about cultural preferences of a family, what is the best course of action?

The most effective approach when uncertain about the cultural preferences of a family is to ask the family directly. This strategy promotes open communication and respect for the family's unique cultural identity. Engaging the family members not only provides accurate information but also involves them in the process, fostering a collaborative relationship that respects their values and preferences.

Reading numerous books about a culture might provide some insights but can never replace the nuanced understanding that comes from direct engagement with individuals from that culture. It can also lead to the risk of misinterpretations or assumptions that may not apply to the specific family.

Making guesses based on common stereotypes can lead to misunderstandings and perpetuate biases, which can harm the relationship with the family and fail to address their actual needs or preferences.

Following your own cultural norms neglects the diversity and individuality of the families you work with. It can result in a lack of understanding and an inability to effectively support the family in a manner that respects their cultural context. Engaging with them directly is the most respectful and effective approach.